So I haven't updated for a couple of weeks, in part because I've been really busy planning for upcoming… View More

I want to give you an idea of the sort… View More

"Forgiveness is giving up all hope of having a better past" - Lily Tomlin   I masturbated for the first time since you left me.   just letting my mind wash over thoughts of letting… View More

Trigger warning: Abuse, mention of roots of Thanksgiving I tend to be fairly good at finding things to be grateful for every day, so in some… View More

Trigger Warning: This discusses abuse, why someone would stay in an abusive situation, self-blame, loss of friends. It's part of a series about losing… View More

So there's a club in San Francisco I have always had a soft spot for. It was dark, and a bit grungy, and the floor always felt stickier than it should beneath my heels. There… View More

  So. So I've been quiet for 10 months about naming my abusive ex (Michael… View More

Just in case I was feeling overly confident about where I stand in the BDSM "community", I found myself on the receiving end of event expulsion thanks to… View More

I lost my virginity during an argument about socialism. I was always a pretentious kid, so in a way the fact that a political argument got me heated in more ways than one wasn’t surprising. And the… View More

If you're even vaguely following my social media, you may have figured out that I have become obsessed with the Seventies. Specifically, I'm obsessed with throwing a swingers… View More