So today my grandmother sat me down, looked deep into my eyes and told me I was disgusting. Disappointing. That she had seen my photos and I was a horrible person with no self-esteem. She Googled my name. Apparently she also shared my sex work name with one of her friends at her local community center, who said she was going to look me up. So she has also outed me to at least one, possibly more people. This of course puts me in… View More

Today is International Sex Worker Rights Day. To honour it, give sex workers the… View More

So, I saw on Tumblr this awesome post by Pervocracy about what sex positive means to them. I really love and agree with their post, and it made me consider my critique of "sex positive" as a catch-all term and why I tend to not identify with it generally (though probably would if Pervocracy's definition was more widespread). I'm also… View More

I was asked to do a debate with a (thankfully polite and sensible) radical feminist about ethical pornography- could it exist, and what would that look… View More

So, one of the things I'm going to try to do is highlight some of my older posts which were super popular on my old blog and aren't getting any notice here. Today? I'm gonna remind you about what it's like fucking in a coffin (with some edits, because, well, thankfully I'm improving as a writer) So I joined the 6 Feet Under Club. I mean, I needed something to distract me, and it… View More

I was interviewed by Fleshbot writer McBeardo (who I'm renaming McBeardy) in what is probably one of the most honest, personal, and detailed interviews I've ever done. Also, there's loads of… View More

All photos from my scenes in "Ban This Sick Filth", a collaboration between Courtney Trouble,… View More

It was a dark and stormy night. Well, it was dark, anyway, something the Creature was thankful for as he settled in for another long night of peering through a… View More